#27 - Intentionality, Part 12: Find a Pleasant Path

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Want your life to actually feel different—not just look the same with new intentions on top? 

Kelly and Nyssa unpack two of Uncle Murray’s most quietly radical intentionality sayings, “You can’t be different by acting the same” and “Find a pleasant path,” exploring how tiny, sustainable shifts in behavior can transform habits, money choices, health, and even how you move through pain and aging. 

Through stories about changing grocery stores, managing back pain, navigating construction chaos, and wrestling with nostalgia and resistance, they show how incremental change plus genuine enjoyment is more powerful (and realistic) than white‑knuckled self‑improvement. 

If you’re craving practical, compassionate guidance on building new habits, aligning your daily actions with your values, and making your path more pleasant without spiritual bypassing, this conversation on intentionality, behavior change, and everyday joy is for you.



Main Topics Covered:


  • How two simple sayings—“You can’t be different by acting the same” and “Find a pleasant path”—can quietly revolutionize your everyday choices

  • Why tiny, almost laughably small changes (like putting on your shoes or switching grocery stores) can matter more than big dramatic goals

  • The surprising emotional baggage hiding inside brand loyalty, money habits, and where you buy your food

  • What chronic pain, back issues, and “mind medicine” teach about suffering versus sensation

  • How 12‑step “slogans,” therapy wisdom, and Uncle Murray’s intentionality practices all weave together

  • The Icelandic motto “it’ll work out,” antidepressants, and what truly happy cultures can teach us about resilience

  • The role of curiosity, play, and even elves (yes, elves) in finding a more pleasant path through weird, hard human lives

  • Why cutting expenses, changing habits, or aging well doesn’t have to feel like punishment or deprivation

  • The difference between accepting life’s difficulty and unconsciously choosing a painful path you don’t actually have to stay on



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